About Counselling
How does counselling help?
Counselling offers an opportunity for you to explore your thoughts and emotions in a safe, confidential setting away from the pressures and judgement of society. The overall aim being to work towards living in a way which is more productive and fulfilling.
People come to counselling for many different reasons, often during times when life feels heavy, confusing, or hard to manage alone. Some may be struggling with low mood or anxiety, feeling overwhelmed by relationships, or caught in patterns or addictions they want to change. Others may feel a deep sense of sadness, emptiness, guilt, or low self-worth. Many people seek counselling because they feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure of how to move forward, and are looking for a safe, supportive space to understand themselves better and create meaningful change.
Couples may decide to come to counselling for a variety of reasons. This may include (and not limited to), struggling with communication issues, intimacy concerns, affairs, or conflicts related to parenting or extended family. Other times, couples may be dealing with significant life changes, such as job loss or a health issue, that have put a strain on their relationship. Couples counselling provides a safe and supportive space for couples to explore their concerns and work towards resolving conflicts. Through therapy, couples can develop healthier communication patterns, gain insight into their own and their partner's needs, and learn strategies for building and maintaining a strong, satisfying relationship.
Our role, whilst always respecting your values and capacity for choice, is to help you explore whatever it is that is troubling you, and through our work together, facilitate any changes you may wish to make.
An Effective, Combined Approach
We practice Integrative Counselling and recognise the uniqueness of each individual client. Humanistic Counselling assumes that each person has the ability to grow emotionally and psychologically and achieve self-fulfilment. As Integrative counsellors we are able to combine knowledge and skills from multiple disciplines; Transactional Analysis, Gestalt, Person-Centred, Systemic and Psychodynamic therapy which can be much more effective than just focusing on one approach.
At Calm Counselling Services we treat every client as an individual and draw upon these various approaches to offer each client therapy that is unique and personal to them.